I look to my mom as an example. And this is what I try to tell people: my mom had a career, and she went to the gym. She took care of herself.
I think when moms just give themselves up, the kids know. They feel guilty, and they resent their mother for making them feel guilty, and then they grow up and do the same thing. Whereas my mother showed me it’s okay to focus on yourself.
Jillian Michaels, I think she knows my mother